October 24, 20251 min read
Integrity isn't merely doing the right thing when no one's watching.
Integrity isn't merely doing the right thing when no one's watching.
There's a mountain trail near my house. (google "lanikai pillbox")
Most people respect it. Some don't.
My personal rule: Leave places better than I find them.
Trail running is no exception, which usually means I end up muling random trash.
Hold the applause. It's not benevolent.
I just don't want more trash ending up on the beach I also enjoy down the hill.
Plus, on the off-chance I find the owner, their facial expressions are priceless.
At the summit recently, I found a large Stanley water bottle.
Lid, straw, container, ice...scattered across the ground.
My Law & Order brain kicked in.
Someone's hurt.
They're in a bush.
Can I hear them calling for help?
After searching (and holstering my metaphorical sidearm), it was clear someone just dropped it and walked away.
I reassembled the pieces and carried it down.
At the parking lot, I spotted one couple.
The bottle matched the woman's shirt perfectly.
They saw me approaching, massive water bottle in hand.
"Yeah, that's mine. Don't worry about it. It fell and I don't want it."
Don't worry?!
Her partner's face dropped. Shoulders sunk.
He reached out and took the bottle from me.
Silent. Embarrassed.
Two people:
1. Clueless. She didn't know better.
2. Complicit. He knew better but did nothing.
As I ran home, one question stuck with me:
What's worse... the person who doesn't know better?
OR the person who knows better but doesn't act?
Integrity isn't just doing the right thing when no one's watching.
It's doing the right thing when the people watching won't.